14 DAY MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

14 DAY MARRIAGE CHALLENGE

Welcome to the 14 Day Marriage Challenge and the opportunity to grow in your relationship with your spouse!  Whether you and your spouse are doing great, or if you are struggling, this challenge is a simple way to develop your marriage.  And, if you are struggling or feel things are kind of stagnant, this is a step that could help renew and refocus your relationship.  REGISTER HERE, ask friends to join you and share the link to this page, and follow the steps below!

THE CHALLENGE

(1) Learn how and when your spouse feels the most loved. It can help grow your marriage because you can intentionally look for ways to love them every day. The first step is to identify your love language as well as your spouse’s  by each taking the 5 LOVE LANGUAGES QUIZ.

(2) Share the results of the quiz with each other and how your love language makes you feel loved.  Giving them some examples could help them understand you even more.  Discussing your love languages for a few minutes can help you understand and be a better spouse.

(3) Be intentional for 14 days by loving your spouse in their love language every day.  You may want to express love in different ways, which is always good and you can do that too.  But expressing love in their love language can make them feel the most loved.

(4) Plan a date night at the end of the 14 Day Marriage Challenge. On your date, discuss 2 questions:
• How did this challenge help you grow in your marriage?
• How would you like to continue growing in your marriage? (Consider these options: continue the challenge, check out other 5 Love Languages Resources or Marriage Pathway, etc.) Decide your next steps together.